but then there would be no interordi and all would be sad

Pardon my French, but HELL YEAH! Girls have no idea what goes through our head as we want to be with someone. And pursuing is alot of work. I get tired. I need a nap or something. I\'m tired of both sexes being held back by old traditions and stereotypes. The only thing to say is \"you go gurl!\"

Heck, I\'m surprised there are actual girls on this thing.

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i cant beleive i just read that and on top of that can apeal to it.

HELP!

Theres a girl thatn i juste LOVE her. We are friends since 2 or 3 years and i realzed than she likes me about 1 year.
The problem is than i dont know where she lives and since last year I am in a diferent school and Ive never had a girlfriend
I make my best friend to ask her if I liked her. He told me than probably not and she had about 4 boyfriends.I think she is now with one 3 years older than him.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? We are both 15 andI enjoyed every moment I spent with her, but about 3 months ago every time I think on her I feel sad and now I am very deeply depressed because I think than I will never be her boy friend.

Please help me, this really is hurting my heart and my soul.....

yo man i havn\'t really got a clue. all the girls ive liked i just told them, sometimes they laughed and sumtimes they didn\'t u just gotta tell her.....orhave u already. oh u cant coz u dont know where she lives. do u know what school she went to? if u do u wait outside for her.....it may sound sad but who cares at least u got to tell her.

Ah yes a remember this well. First since you dont know where she lives, trie to like look up her number or something. Arrang a meeting a some spot and hang out. Maby take her to luch and go shoping too. Now you must casual and tell her your feelings about her. Start it off like \"hey theres someting i want to tell you but i dont know how to say it\" and then if she dosent like you then you can still be friends. Or you could trie agian in a few months.
~over and out

Well, would you rather live in regret? Think about that...

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[quote]Originally posted by Snakeman.EXE
Well, would you rather live in regret? Think about that...

[Edited on 17-4-2004 by Snakeman.EXE] [/quote]
Hes right i mean if you cant tell her then if you ever going to get it off your back then do it. Spoiler because of profounity

[quote]Originally posted by Mega X.exe
[quote]Originally posted by Snakeman.EXE
Well, would you rather live in regret? Think about that...

[Edited on 17-4-2004 by Snakeman.EXE] [/quote]

I would. [/quote]
why would you i mean thats like living an unfofilled life

Hey, i told my girlfriend how i felt a while ago and she listened. Now were going out. Just remember, it never hurts to ask.

Well GM the LOVE expert is here! tell her something pretty...... chicks like that stuff..... i think of you more everyday that i think about breatheing or something......

i should open a love help phone line....10 cents a minute sounds good.....

[quote]Originally posted by Phatman Dover
I had a girlfriend in first grade, and she used to chase me around all the time............she even gave me my first ( and so far, only) kiss on the lips.........She moved away, though.......I still think about her to this day..........:cry:

and, a second time in 4th grade, and this girl was my buddy, too..........we used to do everything together in school.........she, unfortunately, also moved away to a distant land...........I guess I don\'t have much love luck......

I suppose It\'s alright for a lady to chase after a man, just as long as she doen\'t try to, say, gag and bind the man in a chair and takes some dirty pictures so that they\'ll be together forever.......that, and as long as she isn\'t a ditz when she\'s doing it........:D

ProtoStar, I also have your problem. I can\'t give any sound advice, but I think you should stand up and say what you need to say before it\'s too late. (Boy, am I a Hypocrate! ) I made that mistake too many times............................

I am currently in love with a girl who will remain nameless, but I\'ve been after her since 3rd grade.........that\'s the only girl who will look at me and talk to me, except for another one who likes me too, I think........It looks like we have a love triangle, here people..........help me........

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Meh ...same situation here but thats life...
Only problem is i have a g/f haha

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yeah, most of the members are a little...young...so keep it clean. Read the rules too.

yeah we dont want some 7 year old running around saying stuff like that

[quote]Originally posted by zammer92
[quote]Originally posted by Unknown_Entity

Dude calm down and like take some sleeping pills.

[quote]Originally posted by Snakeman.EXE
Well, would you rather live in regret? Think about that...

[Edited on 17-4-2004 by Snakeman.EXE] [/quote]

You were right. I just told her and she said no.....:cry: but Im ok ;D Anyway I just wanted to say thanks to the ones who help guys like me

I have a problem, well, not really, just something that concerns me because it is in regards to my ex-girlfriend. I went out with her for 7 months, then we broke up, right?

We\'ve been seperated for about a month and a half now and I\'ll tell you some of the twists and turns that I\'ve gone through. Okay so, we broke up mainly because we fought too much. We decided to take a little break, give each other some space. At first, things seemed alright, everything seemed dandy and everyone knew that we\'d get back together again.

Finally, a week passed since we broke up and she came to me, wanting me back like crazy. As much as I wanted to get back together with her, I just couldn\'t because I wasn\'t ready. So I had to turn her down. She wasn\'t too pleased, guess she really thought she was going to get back together with me that day. Then, the horrific things followed...things I would never have thought possible, but they happened anyways...

The time we took as what I thought was a temporary break up, she spent her time...with two other guys. She made-out with them both, at seperate times of the month and a half we were seperated and one of the makeout setions was the day before she came back wanting me back as mentioned in the above paragraph.

Funny thing is, the two guys were both ex-boyfriends of hers. She thought I would get mad at her if I found out what had happened so she tried to avoid me. I really couldn\'t be mad at her, it was her choice...not the right one, but nevertheless, still an option she had.

However, I felt the respect and love I once had for her crumble like a shattered mirror, reflecting on the good times we had. There was nothing I could do about it...so why should I bother to care even now? Because I love her?


...


How can you love someone who completely betrayed your trust and is now, currently dating one of her ex boyfriends that she told you she hated so much?!

After she told me how much she loved me...after she said how I could never be compared to any other guy and that nothing would come between us...and after I promised her that I would always be with her...not to mention the sacrafices and hardships I delt with to make her happy...

It was all one big lie.


After having such a tender and deep relationship, I don\'t beleive that I could be just her friend. It wouldn\'t feel right having her as something less. I still have feelings for her but...I don\'t know why I should, I should be appauled and down right pissed off. I should tell her how I feel but, with the way things are going now, I don\'t feel very secure around her anymore. And the fact that she\'s been with two guys since we broke up, during only a friggin\' month and a half, I feel she has become...tainted.



Just so you know, her first ex-boyfriend\'s relationship lasted only 3 weeks and the second ex-boyfriend lasted 3 months, that\'s the one she\'s currently dating now...again. All that as apposed to the 7 months me and her had together.



Does anyone out there have anything they can tell me? I could really use a hand here...

If she wasnt serious about it, forget it. Do not seek a relationship unless you honestly love that person. If you both are sure about it, start going out again. If either one has doubts, either talk about it or just dont go on with it. Try to keep your relationship as serious and close as you can.

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