Anyway...I need advice....seriously.

Soooo...help if you can and want to.

I like this one girl at school. However, I\'m already going out with a girl.

Here\'s the kicker. I met the girl I really like ONE day after I hooked up with the other girl.

I want to go out with the girl I like...but the girl I\'m going out with is really nice...and I don\'t want to hurt her feelings...

On the other hand...I could just wait till SHE breaks up with ME...which is inevitable...but I don\'t want to wait that long....sooo...what should I do? Assistance would be sooo nice right now.


Oh, and yes, I am aware of the fact that I will always love Hadosan off FLCL, right along with Marlene...but they\'re not real (yes, I do realize that)...so I\'m setting my sights lower. Annnnyway...that\'s all I wanted to say.

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This is a tough one . . . I don\'t really know what to tell you.

Just do what you feel is the right thing.

Before you dump your current girlfriend though make sure that your certain about your feelings for the other girl or you may wind up regretting our decision.

If you do break up with the girl, then try to avoid saying any of the cliche things that immdiately put a person on the deffensive. Sometimes saying things like \"we need to talk\" cause an immediate panic response in a bofriend or girlfriend. Though WindRider probably gave you the best advice on what to do in this case . . .

Just do what you feel is the right thing to do.

Well I had that moment before I had a girlfriend, but she was getting kinda ugly to me, but she was incredibly nice, but the other girl I wanted she was hot and nice too. I talked to the first girlfriend, I said to her, \"I have to tell you something..\" \"I\'m gonna have to let you go, we\'re breaking up, k?\" she said, \"but I loved you?\" I said, \"I know that, but we\'re just not ment to be together please I can\'t talk to you anymore\" she said, \"uuh?\" I said, \":cry: Please just leave it\'s hard to do that I\'m sorry please leave now.\" she said, \"oh I get it now I\'m sorry to, but I think you\'re right goodbye!!\" I said, \":sniff: Yah goodbye.\"

And then I walked up to the other girl and said, \"hey are you free friday?\" she said, \"yah I\'m free let\'s go to the movies.\"

So that\'s what I did, but get away from the girls friends so they won\'t embarass you and make you studder. Oh yeah when you talk to her look into her eyes and don\'t look away. That\'s about all the information I can give you.

Trust me, you want the one your going out with now, she likes you, she\'s nice.

Flirt wit the one you really like then if she like you,be an a$$ to the one your with.

YES!!

Thanks adam seriously it is a good plan use it,dont abuse it....ok i kno that was very weird but who cares?

Do what you feel is right...God, i hate when people say that. I mean, if people truly knew what the wanted to do and what was in their hearts, they wouldn\'t be asking for help, right?

anyway, I have no experience in this area (for this reason) and i don\'t anticipate i will for a while. But find someone you truly do trust that DOES have experience and ask them. LIke, a father or uncle? just be sure it\'s an elder.

Peers rarley offer good advice.

hey thas not cool adam is older probably and im as smart so that would count as a father

I didn\'t understand thta, but I saw cool and Adam so thank you!:D

Sorry, i didn\'t say you were younger, i just meant irl.

Hmmmm thats a hard one, Heres the advice i can give go with your gut, if your unsure go with what you feel is right.I mean think about it this girl you may end up dating could extend into marriage(probably not but hey).There was a girl i liked in my school but then i moved before i could tell her i liked her. So dont hesitate.

IRL??? What does that mean, also, if the other girls doesn\'t like you, your screwed.

In Real Life

I\'m not a father (yet) but I am an uncle to...1..2..what comes after...4!!! I\'m an uncle of 4!

no.1 adam what i meant was its not cool to say we dont give good advice me and adam do....sometimes....no.2i meant adam and me could make the intellegence and experiance of a father so i am so we could give good advice.

sorry

I\'m inteelegant, most of the time. But when I\'m typing I have the backspace button, villa ve (dunno what that means) I can make myself seem DUPID!!!...Or whatever.

...Yeah.

Well, anyway, we\'re WAY off topic.

Thanks guys. I took the advice to heart though...even if I already decided what to do about 10 min after posting thi topic, it\'s nice to know that people are actually courteous enough to do that. Thanks.

get one of your friends to flirt with the girl your going out, so she will dump you and u can go out with the other girl

he should flirt with the other one to see if she likes him then he can do what he said

I think he should stick with the girl he\'s with. I know what its like to be dumped for another and it hurts no matter how you say it. I mean if you could like try to get on your current gf nerves then fight and break up then that would be fine. (oh and i am aware that you have already made up your mind but this is what you should have done)

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Now dont be bragging that you know how to be a father....It\'s hard enough to do work get money, do school, and kiss my g/f every day.......but I dont know about the experience, because you\'re too young, and you\'ll experience a g/f that\'s with you for a while...that\'s good enough, and enjoy your youth, while you can.

remember the saying,youth is wasted on the young thas no.1
no.2 im not braggin im just sayin addum is older i have much experiance with my little cuzins,i hate my cuzins,and besides my little cuzins are more annoying than you could ever imagine,so dont doubt what you dont know.

Youth is wasted on the young? So that means you want to be older and die? Don\'t say that......T.V. said that, t.v. is usually not right including dbz where you got it from. Experience from cousins eh? Maybe you do, but My mother and dad use to have four, (three now since my lil\' bro died) She said teens are the worst kind of kids, including teen girls I don\'t think many people can handle that type of stuff, when you get a teen girl, she\'ll go off and sleep with a boy and come back home around 5:00, and in like 3 months you\'ll know she has a baby. But little kids are the start of parents. so yes you have some experience.

ok u see i forgot i got that sayin from there,also yea i wanna be a little older,and how about a 9 year old girl that knows about the birds the bees and the x rated p0#n,and also a little 2 year old who already kissed sum baby,i think that gives me sum more experiance

I would give some advice, but...

*looks at hundreds of flies buzzing around his \"special\" rubbish bin in the corner*

A nine year old girl acts nice and they usually won\'t care about that stuff, because usually young girls don\'t like boys and boys usually don\'t likes girls, but when a girl has s@x with with a boy she becomes like she needs to do it often. But when you have a young girl you really have to teach her alot if you don\'t when she gets older it will come back and haunt you.