I personaly can\'t decide both cause greats amount of damage in relationships....

Good question Juno. :conf:

[Edited on 5-12-2005 by Jaden Yuki]

Asuming you mean a sexual relationship.
Most likely a kiss.

A kiss, because once someone dumps you after that, you\'ll feel like crap.

Both can be, but sometimes a lie means defenent dump. Though a kiss could make it even better.

How is a kiss bad?

You guys are really making me laugh. Unless it\'s a unwanted kiss... yes, I can see that, but...

Lies are obviously bad, right? If you like someone and they lie to you, that hurts far worse than a kiss could. Pfft.

I mean friendships, and boy friend-girl friend

I would say lies do some damage to the ol\' EP(Emotional Points...get it? Instead of HP? Huh? Huh? Aww nevermind....). I personally can\'t stand when people lie to one-another, it creates trust issues.

Side note- 300th post! WOooooo!!:D

[Edited on 6-12-2005 by PsychoGiga]

We mean kisses with other people.


In a friendship way a lie is superrr worse. A kiss can only bring you closer. Besides in my experience if you kiss a friend and it becomes awkward, you both kinda just act like it never happened.

Well I dunno.. It\'s also terrible sometimes if a friendship tries to become something more.

this so true in any relationship because if you lie to some one it damages a relationship or if you kiss some one it can damages a relationship by telling a lie.

A lie most likely. \'nuff said.

Depends.

If you give a kiss to one who\'s not your boy/girlfriend, that\'s bad. Especially when they find out. Even when you tell them it was just (just) your brother/sister (on the cheek of course). They probably won\'t believe you. Or only half, and trust you less.

A lie will do damage anyway. If that lie has to do with relationol stuff. Not, like, homework or so.

I wasn\'t thinking of that because honestly, I was thinking about lies.

Then again, both can be equally bad if you kiss someone that isn\'t your SO and lie about it...

A kiss, because lies suck.

And both will have great negative influence on that person.



Usually kisses do.

a lie can be forgiven and taken back in a way but I kiss cant.

Kiss, I lie all the time (not on the boards).

Since is when a kiss bad? :conf: Unless it is from someone you don\'t like, or feel uncomfortable, or maybe from a person the same sex as the kiss-ee and that person is a homophobe?

Other than that, though...

Yeah, kisses aren\'t bad unless the situation is extremely awkward. I personally like kisses! The candy and the action.

*plays some random Emo-Muzic*
Kisses are lies!:lol:

No, I think a kiss does more damage in the grand scheme of things. People throw the things around like their high-fives or something...

Jealousy tends to lead into Hate
Lies tend to lead into Anger or distrust.

Little less extreame I think. Maybe. I\'m no damn atthority.:rolleyes:

A kiss is something precious, especially your first one. A lie is something to cover up for something that is not true. I\'d pick kiss. I don\'t like to lie or be lied to.

Exatcly what I would have said.

I think kiss is more devastating. When they try to report you to the school, you have to kill them.

I think a lie. i can\'t stand those

when someone doesn\'t tell me the truth and i find out about it i can get SO pissed

What, reporting somebody because he/she kissed someone else and you\'ll kill the one reporting? Congratulations, you are now allowed to enter Sigbald Wuttermetal\'s Mansion Of Therapy For The Mentally Ill.

Ad then there\'s both , lie about a kiss.

In the immortal words of Count Olaf (Jim Carrey)

\"Ok, ok ok. I call this one \'The Jealous Girlfriend\'. Hey honey, I\'ve been having an affair with you! Can you ever forgive me? OOOooohhh! *acts as if he just got kicked in the crotch and falls down*\"

Honestly though, a lie is the absolute worst thing in my opinion.
~Rock