Well, the point I\'m trying to make is that it puts forward a reasonable scenario

Heres the deal, My first girlfriend was japanesse and we used to get along very well(Even when we didnt could understand each other very well), but she had to go back to tokyo and its pretty sure I wont see her again.

After a short depress, I locked my eyes on one of my classmates, and i realized that she liked me but right after that I moved to another school. We didnt saw each other for a long time so i feel that im just a new friend for her, but now that I realize that I fell in love with her, Im getting thiner, I look sick, I dont eat, I feel sad all the time, I dont smile anymore...

So, I went to the movies with some friends and I also met a friend of my best pal (I will call him \"X\") and they invited her too (I will call her \"Y\"). I tryed to get close to her but she didnt payed attention to me, she only wanted to be with X. Rigth when I was going to tell her if she would like to date with me I saw Y Sitted next with X with her head on his shoulder and grabbing his hand.

Im afraid that they get a relationship so i need help of how i can be a closer friend to her, so she would realize that Im an option.

Also, her birthday is in 2 weeks, what should I give to her? I want than that gift would tell her that I want to be a closer friend with her.

Can you please help me???

I used to have a girlfrend and she moved to canada and i think fred did it he always does everything he even does his mom
um i feel sorry for you maybe you can get her back? i did that once and i did it because the person she was going out with moved too fast on the elevator you know what i mean
maybe you could talk to her more man i feel really sorry for you.

Beat up that other boy and she\'ll love you instead of the other injured boy!:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

My help

1: NEVER EVER TRY TO RAPE THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS! Kapeesh? She\'ll hate you, and molest you! *Don\'t get her dark side moving*

2: Fight! Girls loove wild-boys.

3: admit your loving to her, then, she\'ll tell HER loving to you.

Lets just hope it helps you!

Kiyru I guess your being funny, but really pepole can take that the wrong way or
something. People who post on this thread actually do want help, most of them at least.... so let us try not to include the word rape in our love help posts......

Off Topic, slightly: Sorry, I think its weird.

On Topic: Girls, like a thing that your boy-friend does, if he likes sports, like sports!




I done my job!

b4 you ever want to make a relationship w/someone, know the things they like to do, know most of the things about them, and make sure you know their phone number, cuz just usin aim doesnt work..... for instance my 1st gf had wack teeth, she hates videogames, and i was chattin w/her overly protective older bro once and i didnt even know it...........and i found out all the things she hates and likes from her friends (who were my closest friends, obviously they were girls) so we were never a \"good match to begin with........................... yea that all sounds stupid dont it

Ok, I have a problem. This is very different from anything before.

Now I have a girlfriend. Problem is, there is some person that keeps IMing me, saying that theyre one of the girls from school, and that shes madly in love with me. I dont even know this person personally. I told them on numerous occasions to talk to me at school, but she never did. I dont want anything to do with them. Now, she signs in for the first time in weeks and says she wants to call me tonight. I KNOW its not her, because ive seen this girl at school and she acts NOTHING like the person Ive been talking to. Also, theyre never online long enough for me to ask them anything, and whenever I say something about how I cant trust them unless they talk to me at school, she says she has to go and signs out. Its probably one of the annoying guys or something. She always says shell be on later, but she never is. I dont expect them to call tonight.

Now what Im asking you guys is this: what the f*@# am I supposed to do? What do I tell them next time they sign in? If someone calls, how do I respond?

Yeah, but I know who it supposedly is. Shes a senior, while im a sophomore. So shes older than I am. I dont even know her, so i dont really want a relationship with her. Besides, now Im going out with someone else. Shes a freshmen and shes also a total gamer/Final Fantasy fan. Also, she talks to me a lot at school. The other girl ive told to say something to me at school and she refuses. Im good with relationships now, but how do i handle the stalker/girl online?

[quote]Originally posted by Phatman Dover
I had a girlfriend in first grade, and she used to chase me around all the time............she even gave me my first ( and so far, only) kiss on the lips.........She moved away, though.......I still think about her to this day..........:cry:

and, a second time in 4th grade, and this girl was my buddy, too..........we used to do everything together in school.........she, unfortunately, also moved away to a distant land...........I guess I don\'t have much love luck......

I suppose It\'s alright for a lady to chase after a man, just as long as she doen\'t try to, say, gag and bind the man in a chair and takes some dirty pictures so that they\'ll be together forever.......that, and as long as she isn\'t a ditz when she\'s doing it........:D

ProtoStar, I also have your problem. I can\'t give any sound advice, but I think you should stand up and say what you need to say before it\'s too late. (Boy, am I a Hypocrate! ) I made that mistake too many times............................

I am currently in love with a girl who will remain nameless, but I\'ve been after her since 3rd grade.........that\'s the only girl who will look at me and talk to me, except for another one who likes me too, I think........It looks like we have a love triangle, here people..........help me........

[Edited on 11-11-2002 by Phatman Dover] [/quote]

I think I can help you Phatman Dover.

#1. First go after the girl you like.

#2. Keep going after her, Then after a while, become friends with the girl.

#3. Muster up the courage after a while to tell her your feelings and ask her out.

#4. If she doesn\'t like you enough {and never will} to go out will you and build a relationship, then stop trying to and go after the girl who likes you. See, sometimes its better to build a relationship with the girl that likes you rather than go after the girl that doesn\'t.

As for me, I want and wish I had a girlfriend, but If I can\'t and end up never having one, then I\'ll be just fine. I will be a little sad and lonely, but I\'ll still be okay. I\'ve been a little sad my whole life, seeing as I have never had a single friend in my entire life {I\'m not lying, I\'m telling the truth} so like I said, I\'ll be okay. Did I help you Phatman Dover?


[Edited on 09/09/04 by corte]

[Edited on 09/09/04 by corte]

are you guys gay or just stupid for being in this topic. Like some people really need it. MORONS!:mad:

Don\'t be so ignorant. People may need help when it comes to this.

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Hey guys how is going I have I problem. There is this girl who likes me but I don\'t know how to say sorry I like someone else in the best polite way I tried the I\'m seing someone else but it don\'t help. Anyways I also don\'t know how to attract the girl I really do like it\'s killing me.... Oh and everytime I see her I can\'t take my eyes of her; I have no idea to what to do.


Anyways: HELP:(:conf:

I\'ve heard that smiling helps. Apparently, people who smile are more... attractive to women or something. It has to be real smiling, not a fake smile. Eh.... I dunno. It\'s worth a shot.

I have a sort of plastered smile. I mean, I smile unconsiously. And laugh as a response to many things. And mumble when I can\'t think of an answer....

None of the forementioned seem to help me much.:lol:

Are you trying to say you think she tried to pass off a love note as a bill or wrote a love note on one? Just ask her about it monday.

You just her your chances with her, man. Alot of girls really like to be treated like they\'re special, and if you don\'t give them special treatment some might take that as their feelings mean nothing to you. I\'ll agree with you decision that it was the fair thing to do, but if you\'re trying to play at being Romeo, you just shot yourself in the foot man.

Though, I wouldn\'t despair. Not all girls are the same and you might be making a bigger deal out of it than necessary.

There\'s this girl I like, but she\'s kinda shy and quiet..and older than me. But man she\'s hot. ....errr, I mean she\'s cute. Yeah.

Anyways, I tried the \'hi\' approach, she just said hi back in a hushed tone and kind of hurried off.. Stringing me along.

A few days later, I followed her to the filecabinets (I forgot to mention, this is at work) and tried to get some more words out of her. Not forcefully, no. But damn..I couldn\'t get her to say much of anything unless it was work related.

I don\'t think she\'ll ever show interest in me.. I guess it\'s one of those fantasies where the shy girl gets kinky behind closed doors. :rofl: But oh well, I must move on and be valiant! *salutes nothing in particular*

Give him hell, Mega X. Here, I\'ll help you.

Hey, Im 16, Im a nerd, and I am seeking a girlfriend. I see where you are coming from though, cuz half the people I know just try to get a girlfriend for the hell of it. And no, I dont play Everquest, thats my friends. Im more into developing MMORPGs.

You take any testosterone yet? Go ask your doctor, Im sure he could hook you up with some.

Amazing, you don\'t feel it, but I certainly do. How exactly can you explain it away for those who do feel it?

Whatever your opinon may be, you troll, you have no right to call people \"phreaks\" and \"nerds\" because we feel things you don\'t.

Thanks Hollow, that\'s exactly what I intend to give him. I mean, he comes in here, insulting this entire topic! That IS a troll no matter what you may otherwise think.

So, troll, I suggest you stick to the topic. Which is, believe it or not, is Love Help. If you want to complain, take it somewhere else.

Case closed.