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Kei
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Posted on April 22, 2004 at 17:24:44 [Post link]
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Maybe you've noticed my "Friends" topic, maybe you haven't. but I'm sure at least some of you are aware of Darkgate now.

Which gave me the inspiration to do this.

Over the course of humanity, humans have formed several relationships with others, in the hope to bridge that long and gigantic abyss that is known as loneliness. As I've said several times before in my time here, social belongingness is a proven human need. Although it is not needed as much as food or shelter, or that little saftey egg that is known as money, it is still ranked rather high up in Manslow's Heirarchy of needs.

Yet why isit actually needed? To help justify the human psyche? Well hell, we've got religion for that. Maybe to complete that little circle of life that everyone is seeking. for instance, I form relationships here because when I actually form said relationships (confusing isn't it???), I can be anyone I want, and act how I want. Yet why? I'll never meet any of you...(except Darkgate)....so why even try to create a reputation here? Maybe it's unconcious, maybe I'm doing it to prepare myself...maybe because I'm just too damned ambitious for my own good, and that I actually believe that I will amount to someone important in life. Chances are, I'll be so little-known that no one outside of my friends and the few people who know me here would even have a damned clue what Kei means. So, logically speaking, I shouldln't be wasting my time typing this just to preserve my already hackneyed reputation here. I should be reading the Great Gatsby, or some other stupid book assigned to me...and yet, I still come here, just to say things and preserve the idea that I'm actually a philosopher. And to preserve the few relationships that I have here.

I actually DO have relationships here too. I know WindRider, and Karayamikid, and DarkGate, and Mega X.exe, and Snakeman.exe, and Unknown_entity....and some other people too. but why the HELL should I care??? they don't care, that's for sure, so why should I??? Because I'm lonely. Here in south carolina, there are about as many intelligent people are there are indifferent people in America...(slim to none).

Hence, I come to Interordi that way I can have some idea what I'm doing, rather than foolishly attempting to form relationships with the IDIOTS that infest this god-forsaken school. Maybe That's why I'm angry.....

Oh well. I thought I'd just say this...as a personal complaint to myself.

but....why do YOU form relationships????


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Posted on April 22, 2004 at 21:47:55 [Post link]
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It may not mean alot, but I'm here. We build relationships because that is human nature. That is why woman was created. But, there is a deeper reason for making relationships of any kind, personal gain. We all need something and someone else always has it.

If you ask me, you often force yourself into loneliness, which makes no sense. Then again, I am not you. God knows we live in the redneck region. Unfortunately, there is nothing either of us can do.


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Posted on April 23, 2004 at 1:05:47 [Post link]
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I'm aware of DarkGate, but I don't know who DarkGate is.

I believe the relationships, albeit more devolped, stem from the primal instincts of Wolves and other predators. They hunt in packs so, even if they get in over their heads, they have backup.

I suppose this is one of the advantages of having friends. On a Physical and Psycholgical way.


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Posted on April 23, 2004 at 1:08:54 [Post link]
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Posted on April 23, 2004 at 1:11:21 [Post link]
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Yeah, the neighbors really dig that. No really, I've tried...well...not really but you know


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Posted on April 23, 2004 at 2:16:09 [Post link]
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I have friendships because they're just too darn fun not to have. Sometimes you have to drop friendships though, because the person changes very drastically..say, the person beforehand was caring and friendly, now she/he is cold, angry, and just an all out bitch 90% of the time.

BUT..friendships are fun because of all the stuff that happens during. And when you have a friend, you know that there's someone there to talk to about..your common interests, whatever they may be.

Relationships though, are better if you find the right person. This is just my opinion, and stemming from my own experience. =P Some people do better without a significant other..some people can't live without.


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Posted on April 23, 2004 at 3:40:52 [Post link]
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The main reson for a relationship(As in friends as far as it goes) is that people don't want to be lonely.I mean,Who am I gonna Whup on Sonic Adventure 2?You can't beat yourself,thats for sure(Or as far as I know) I mean,you can get a bunch of different friends,which makes life a little more fun.I mean,Look at Windrider~,he's a massochist(Sp?),You will probably NEVER have a friend like him.You,Kei,are a plain,flat out philosephor(sp?) who is just to much fun to chat with(On good days). There's my 10 cents...

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Posted on April 23, 2004 at 11:35:06 [Post link]
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Okay as far as the Sonic Adventure 2 part goes, I agree with TJ. But to be perfectly honest, I think making friendships is important because you'll always have someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, etc. Plus, if you find a certain person, you'll have someone to look up to. Like me for example, I look up to Orengefox00 as somewhat of a big brother figure. And whenever I'm not able to talk to him, I always refer to a little song that I've remembered by heart. And...yep. That's all I can think of.

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Posted on April 24, 2004 at 0:03:56 [Post link]
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I'm sorry you're lonely, but... I live in SC! You callin' me an idiot?! :lol:
Um...
I think making friends in LIFE is necessary. Otherwise, you have to balance yourself as a sole entity... and you go crazy and kill everyone else cause' you think you're the only one who's sane. Friends are there to give you realistic views of other people's lives and support with your own. :)
As for online friends... you need us the same way you need non-educational media. So you have something to agree with, some to hate, something to laugh at, something to know you and for you to know.
Plus, you're probably waiting to how we mess up our own lives so you don't feel bad about mistakes you make. We need you probably the same way:D


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Posted on April 24, 2004 at 12:15:53 [Post link]
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Originally posted by Heatman.EXE
I'm sorry you're lonely, but... I live in SC! You callin' me an idiot?! :lol:
Um...
I think making friends in LIFE is necessary. Otherwise, you have to balance yourself as a sole entity... and you go crazy and kill everyone else cause' you think you're the only one who's sane. Friends are there to give you realistic views of other people's lives and support with your own. :)
As for online friends... you need us the same way you need non-educational media. So you have something to agree with, some to hate, something to laugh at, something to know you and for you to know.
Plus, you're probably waiting to how we mess up our own lives so you don't feel bad about mistakes you make. We need you probably the same way:D


Eh...ano...

*shakes his head*

Never mind...Anywho, another good point made (with the exception of the psychotic parts mentioned).

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Posted on April 24, 2004 at 17:29:54 [Post link]
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XD, Yeah.


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Posted on April 24, 2004 at 17:52:29 [Post link]
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I don't believe there is anything less meaningful about talking with people here than in real life. I mean, you still learn peoples stands on subjects, there opinions, and such. You don't need to actually see or touch a person to understand them.

Anyways, It's easy to see why friendship is important. Friend-Mart (tm) has had all sorts of success in the some of the most popular animes. Enemies just never do as well.:lol:


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